9-week program
Payment plans available
The cohort program.
Choose the cohort →The nine-week program, plus three months of weekly individual coaching by phone or video call.
Men ages 18 and older are welcome, whether you have a faith, are questioning, or have no religious belief. Belief in God is not required to participate.
Payment plans available
The cohort program.
Choose the cohort →Payment plans available
The cohort plus three months of weekly individual coaching by phone or video call.
Choose program + coaching →The shared journey of the cohort, with additional space to focus on your own experiences, questions, and next steps.
Learn and practice alongside a consistent group of men. Brotherhood, honest conversation, and accountability are at the heart of the experience.
Meet one-on-one by phone or video call each week for up to an hour, with time to talk through your personal questions and practice applying what you’re learning.
All individual coaching takes place by phone or video call. In-person coaching appointments are not offered.
Your package includes three months of weekly one-on-one coaching sessions, each up to an hour long. When you’re ready to use your coaching package, we’ll arrange a recurring weekly meeting time with you.
Go deeper into each Counterfeit Emotions dyad, or paired topic, and explore what it means in your own life. Bring your questions, work through the material with your coach, and develop a more personal understanding of each topic.
Choose when to use your three months of coaching based on where you need support:
Begin exploring your patterns, clarify what you want to work toward, and prepare for the cohort.
Talk through personal questions and practice applying the weekly lessons to your own life.
Continue practicing what you’ve learned, work through new challenges, and stay connected to your commitments.
These are coaching and education sessions to help you explore and apply the Counterfeit Emotions material. Coaching offers practical support, reflection, and accountability; it does not replace therapy.
Explore enrollment →Choose the Tuesday or Thursday cohort that works for you. Meet every week for nine sessions, then come together for a celebration evening. There are no weeks off.
Choose your weekly evening
Starts January 12, 2027
6:00–9:30 p.m.
Mountain Time · Utah local time
Choose your weekly evening
Starts January 14, 2027
6:00–9:30 p.m.
Mountain Time · Utah local time
All cohort meetings, including celebration evenings, run 6:00–9:30 p.m. Utah local time. Mountain Time follows Utah’s daylight saving changes.
Join online or attend in person in Lehi, Utah.
Use the guided workbook, daily lessons, and practical exercises to bring what you’re learning into everyday life.
Invite a trusted support person to week two. Your support person or spouse is also invited back for the celebration evening.
This program is currently for men ages 18 and older, of any faith or no faith, who are ready to move beyond simply avoiding pornography and work toward recovery. Belief in God is not required. Through Counterfeit Emotions, you’ll explore the emotions and patterns beneath your behavior, practice new ways to respond, and build connection with other men. Our goal is to help you work toward freedom from relying on pornography for relief or escape.
If you miss a session, that’s okay. All sessions are recorded, so you can watch when you have time, catch up on the material, and stay on track with your cohort.
Recovery Not Sobriety offers coaching and education that can sit alongside therapy. It does not replace it. The program provides practical tools, opportunities to practice emotional awareness, and a brotherhood of men working toward change. You’ll have structure, encouragement, and accountability as you bring what you’re learning into everyday life.
If you’re working with a therapist, talk with them about how the program could fit your needs and support the work you’re doing together.